FEBRUARY|| 4 Secrets To Waiting Well.

Hey Friends,

It’s February already.

Whether you’re waiting by the bus stop to get a cab, or waiting for a friend at a designated place; Whether you are waiting to get an admission offer into college, or waiting for your PhD thesis to be approved, waiting always comes with mixed feelings.

Tension.

Hope.

Apprehension.

Faith.

Doubt.

Expectations.

And the morbid fear of worst case scenarios. What if I never get married?  What if I never have a baby?

Waiting can be tough, and I would know because I’ve been out of a paid job for a while now (49 days to be exact!).

Like for most people, job hunting has its share of dread (what if I spend all my savings and go broke?) and anticipation (maybe there’s a job offer in my spam folder).


Since I was in a similar phase of life [i.e. Pre-Housejob placement], not too long ago, I now know that it is unnecessary, in fact a total waste of time to stress myself over my current lack of employment.

Because it’s only a phase and it will pass. Still this is easier said than done.

So what are the secrets to waiting well?

1. REMEMBER.

Has God said it? Then he will do it.

Numbers 23:19 GNB

God is not like men, who lie; He is not a human who changes his mind. Whatever he promises, he does; He speaks, and it is done.

Hebrews 10:35‭-‬36 GNB

Do not lose your courage, then, because it brings with it a great reward. You need to be patient, in order to do the will of God and receive what he promises.

2. REJOICE.

Since you’re certain that your miracle is on the way, why not show your gratitude in advance?

Philippians 4:4‭, ‬6 GNB

May you always be joyful in your union with the Lord. I say it again: rejoice! Don’t worry about anything, but in all your prayers ask God for what you need, always asking him with a thankful heart.

3. REACH OUT

It’s funny how we can be so consumed about our own desires that we ignore the obvious needs around you.

You don’t have a job, yet? Pray for your friends who do and ask God to strengthen them physically and mentally, and give them the wisdom to do their work in such a way that will glorify him.

Still awaiting your college acceptance letter? Then tutor your neighbor’s son after school or make dinner for the family.

Now that you’re available, endeavor to make yourself available.

I tell myself, “You can’t be jobless and still be useless.”

Galatians 6:2 GNB Help to carry one another’s burdens, and in this way you will obey the law of Christ.

Philippians 2:4 GNB And look out for one another’s interests, not just for your own.

Hebrews 13:16 GNB Do not forget to do good and to help one another, because these are the sacrifices that please God.

4. REFRESH.

You know how a PC gets stuck after it’s been in use for a few hours, and you have to refresh a particular application, or reboot the entire system?

So is your Waiting Season.

God doesn’t waste our waiting periods, he uses them to train us.

With God, Waiting time is Training time.

Revisit the things you’ve already learnt that will make you better equipped when your waiting is over.

Trusting God for a life partner?
Now is the time to develop yourself mentally, emotionally, financially, and spiritually.

Trusting God for the fruit of the womb?
Now is the time to invest in godly parenting books, and even volunteer to babysit your friends’ kids.

No matter what you’re trusting God for this season, I bring you this word of encouragement, it will come to pass. 

Ephesians‬ ‭3:20-21‬ ‭GNB‬‬

“To him who by means of his power working in us is able to do so much more than we can ever ask for, or even think of: to God be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus for all time, for ever and ever! Amen.”

Here’s my prayer for you this month, listen and be blessed!

Have a Testimony-Filled February!

:::requ1ne:::

❤️❤️❤️

A November To Remember: New Beginnings.

Hey People,

GOD is good.

It’s a new SEASON.

And I have a new SONG.

I remember almost too clearly, this time about 10 years ago.

I was through with secondary school, and seriously stressing over gaining an admission into the University.
Nigerians living in Nigeria, can relate to this.

First, I had to sit for the “Almighty” University Matriculation Exam known as JAMB, which I thankfully passed at one sitting, after much prayers…lol.

Next came the Post-UME exam (to streamline the number of candidates applying to a particular institution). My dad traveled with me and we spent the night at a Family friend’s place.

On the day of the exam, I was so nervous on seeing the THOUSANDS of candidates that came from all over the country for it.

I kept praying and praying and praying…lol.

We Nigerians pray about anything and everything, because every Success is a Breakthrough, be it Academic, Marital or Financial.

To cut the story short, I was admitted that year (although for a different course than I applied for), but I was thrilled nonetheless and so was my family.

It was as if I’d won a LOTTERY…lol.

Again, only in Nigeria.

Anyway, I had to move to a new city which was a whole new experience for my “young and naive” self, especially those first few weeks on campus.

I literally gawked at everything happening around me, exhibiting the typical “Freshers’ Syndrome” 😂

So Many Fears.

How will I cope with this or that? I thought.

But not only did I survive, I thrived. The rest, they say is History.

10 years later, I find myself in a similar situation but on a grander scale.

My dream of getting a HOUSE JOB finally came to pass. And I feel like a “Fresher” all over.

I had to move to a new city, and leave everyone dear to me (Family, Friends, Church) several miles behind.

My parents are the real MVP.

They were as involved now as they were then. They took the pain to get the necessary contacts to ensure I settle down on time.

While I’m emotional about the big move, I’m thankful for this opportunity and I anticipate all the adventures that come with it.

Thanks to everyone that prayed, advised or encouraged me while I was “hunting” for a job..lol.

Your prayers have been ANSWERED.

God bless you!
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So the song for this season:

You’re Love, You’re Light, You’re LORD over everything.

And here’s one of my favorite scriptures of all times:

“I rely on your constant love; I will be glad, because you will rescue me. I will sing to you, O LORD, because you have been good to me.”


(Psalms 13:5-6 GNB)

Currently Reading:

– The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey)

– Understanding the Purpose and Power of Men (Myles Munroe)

– The Meaning of Marriage (Timothy Keller with Kathy Keller)

New Read:

– The Purpose driven Life (Rick Warren)

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“When you get what you want, be sure you want what you get.”

This is my Story. This is my Song…lol.

Naija Housejob wahala has finally started. 

There’s so much to do and to learn. And these first few days have been challenging. 

But I know God will order my steps and grant me the wisdom to deal with every circumstance that comes along.

So just in case I am MIA,  know that I’m in that phase of life where I am barely trying to place one foot in front of the other.

I know that this too will pass.

Again God is good.

Cheers to a great November,

Throwback to med school days!
:::requ1ne:::
❤️❤️❤️

LESSON 14: CHANGE IS INEVITABLE!

That moment you realize that the people you once knew, are no longer the people you now know. And the things you used to love, are not things you love anymore.” Change!


Change in this context, is a process that can be both painful and exciting. There are healthy and unhealthy concepts that can be applied to change, but we will stick with the former.

It’s what a tree experiences when it sheds its leaves during Autumn; leaving the warmliness of the sunny summer, and looking forward to the loneliness of the cold winter.

It’s what a first-time mother goes through in bringing forth a new life. The pain of childbirth on one hand, and the joys of motherhood on the other.

Change is also what we see during the developmental milestones (cooing, grasping, rolling, sitting, walking etc) of a baby, all through childhood, to the first signs of puberty (menarche, facial & pubic hair growth, deepening of the male voice, female breast development etc) in a teen.

Change is a journey we all must go through and it’s not always an easy one. Some forms of change are drastic (like the sudden loss of a loved one), while others are gradual (like a person going through physical rehabilitation). None of these is however without challenges.

Everyone loves to progress but not everyone likes change. Unfortunately, the former cannot do without the latter. For a caterpillar to become a butterfly, it must learn to fly. Many of us are so comfortable with what is familiar, that the thoughts of anything different can be frightening. Change is however, inevitable.

Like my secondary school friend liked to quote, “if you refuse to change,  you will become (a) change.” In other words, a person who refuses to accept/adapt to change will eventually be discarded.

Year 2015 was a year of change, mostly subtle ones which have contributed to who I am now. I was able to learn that Feelings changeSeasons change, People change, and Situations change. And I made effort to to embrace those changes by adjusting my thoughts/attitudes.

Change is a beautiful adventurous ride. You really don’t know all there is to expect until you are on the other side. But staying in the same spot is not an option either. Sooner or later it would lead to frustration.

Adapting to Change is one of the major keys to not just surviving, but enjoying life. This year, do your best to progress and not regress in the face of Change. Keep moving forward.

Cheers,

:::requ1ne:::