HouseJob Chronicles: Memoirs of an Ex-Houseofficer (5)

1. Can we meet you?

I’m Adeniran Eunice, a graduate of All Saints University, Saint Vincent and The Grenadines. 


2. What was your most favorite posting, and why?

Internal medicine a.k.a Netflix and chill. 

I liked almost everything minus the consultant ward rounds, A and E calls, outpatient clinics and the every day morning reviews. 


3. What was your least favorite posting, and why?

Paediatrics. 

Too much tension in that department, it was as if I was walking around egg shells so I was always stressed out.


4. Your best call ever?

The calls I didn’t do (either sold or simply helped)😃😀


5. Your worst call ever?

Labor ward calls….arrrgh!!!


6. Nicest Chief(s) to work with:

Dr. Sule (Obstetrics/Gynecology). He was the coolest, calmest and the most collected of all.


7. Life lessons from House job:

i. When you get what you want make sure you want what you get.

ii. God can be trusted even when life makes no sense. 

iii. Life not only takes time, life takes effort. 


8. What are you thankful for?

God’s protection over my life as a resident outside the hospital facility, and over my health during the Lassa fever scare, despite being in close contact with a patient that eventually tested positive. 


9. Your most embarrassing moment?

The day a consultant made me cry because I came late for morning review. 


10. Rate your HouseJob Experience on a scale of 1-5:

3/5


11. Call food, Yay or Nay?

Nay. I’ll eat a home-cooked meal any day. 


12. Longest day of Housejob?

Every day as a Team A member during my Paediatric Posting. Surviving each day was a testimony. 


13. Happiest day during Housejob:

The last day of Housejob, which happened to be a day before my next call 😂. Indeed, I serve a living God.


14. New skills learnt?

Practically everything from securing an IV access to inserting a urinary catheter to scrubbing in for surgery.  

15. Any regrets?

Not taking a single vaginal delivery (but I’m a pro, now😄)


16. Most admirable consultant:

Dr. Nwafulume, simply because I was given the rest of the day off, the day we lost one of our colleagues.


17. Most likely specialty and why?

Psychiatry. For the love of mental health.


18. Most unlikely specialty. Why?  

Obstetrics and Gynecology. I detest the smell of perineal blood and waiting on labor patients is such a nightmare for me. 

19. Unforgettable patients: 

i. One of my very first patients as a House officer, who was managed as a case of ruptured typhoid ileitis. His recovery was nothing short of the miraculous. 

Like Deby said, Truly we (doctors) treat but it is God who heals.

ii. Another unforgettable patient was a young woman we managed during my surgery rotation who passed on due to complications. I’m still in touch with one of her sons, and each encounter is a sad reminder.  

iii. I once assisted in resuscitating a “Jane Doe” in the Emergency Room, who was involved in a RTA that involved multiple casualties. She couldn’t have been more than six years old, sadly she did not survive. To the best of my knowledge, no parents or caregivers came forward to claim the body (or maybe they were involved in the accident as well). 


20. Something to miss about Housejob: 

My friends. 

21. If not medicine, what?

Probably, Clinical Psychology.


22. What next after Housejob?

The Medical Officer life, then hopefully Residency. 


23. More important as an Houseofficer, skill or stuff?

Both are equally important.

But if you must find the balance, choose skill over stuff, ‘cos after HJ you’re mostly O.Y.O.


24. Favorite mantra? 

“We don’t complain, we give thanks.”


25. Shout out to (tag 3 HOs):

3 is a joke right?? Of Course it is. 

I want to appreciate all my colleagues that made my Housejob experience an awesome one. 

From @DrChimereze, the first person to show me my way around FMCL, to my unforgettable Flatmates @Emeka and @Osas, who treated me like a lady throughout our stay together, to my rotation partners @Vicky, @Comfy, @Tony, and @Nonso, who had my back always throughout our one-year-ride, to my amazing friends-turned-sisters @Sarah and @Debyo, to my one in a million sugar partner @DrM, my dearest @SPO, the ever friendly @Efosa_M.D, the easy going @DrAmeh, @KingJosh, and @DrFortune, thank you, thank you and thank you very much!!!

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Editor’s Note: 

And the series Housejob Chronicles is officially a wrap. I hope you enjoyed each post. Don’t forget to send me an email at lolade1512@gmail.com if you have specific questions about Housejobs in Nigeria. 

Thank you for reading,

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Book Review|| Money Won’t Make You Rich

The problem is not in how much you earn but in how much you spend. To the extent to which you’re able to reduce your expenses, you’re able to accumulate wealth – Sunday Adelaja





Author: Sunday Adelaja. 

Genre: Christian, Personal Finance.

||How I came across the book

On a visit to one of my friends last year, I stumbled on the title and decided it’s a must read.

||Expectations 

While I’m familiar with the Author’s name, it was my first time reading any of his books…so I had my fingers crossed about what to expect. 

||Lessons

A lot of good lessons to be honest…let me highlight a few without copying out the entire book…lol.


What Money is:

– Money is a good slave but a bad master.

– Money is a reward for the production of goods and services. 

– Money moves in the direction of value. The more value you add, the more money you’ll make. 
– If money means to us more than a piece of paper, we are depending too much on it.


What Money is NOT:

– Money is not the same as wealth. If you could have all the comfort that wealth brings, you won’t need money. 

– Every money that comes your way has a source. In actual sense there’s no free money.


Money vs Wealth:

– Wealth is not a miracle, it must be created. It is wickedness to desire what you did not work for.

– Wealth is not a matter of gamble or chance. Lottery is a fool’s way of making money.

– Wealth does not come by working harder or longer, it comes by applying the right principles.

– Income does not determine wealth, knowledge does.

– Knowing the secrets of wealth creation is more important than any monetary handout.

– One principle of wealth creation is to seek to resolve problems and give good service.


On Saving & Investments:

Fools waste money, the mediocre spend money while the wise invest money.

– Savings always add up if we are committed to it.

– Your savings plan should be simple and definite.

– Concentrate on having more assets and investments than you have liabilities.

– Gain takes time. Don’t be in a hurry to reap the benefits of your investments.


On Discipline, Budgeting and Lending:

– Money doesn’t tame desires, only discipline does.

– Personal Integrity is measured by how much you are able to hold on to the promises you make daily to yourself.

– Any amount we put aside from our salary is the only amount we actually get.

– Develop a budget and live by it. A good budget brings order, plan, and focus to your finances. 

– Budgets help you keep your expenses in check. They remove unexpected expenditure from your life.

– Never lend out what you’re not ready to lose or donate. You’re not a bank. 

On Greed and Contentment: 

Greed is the enemy of contentment. It makes you want something so badly that you are willing to violate the rights of others to get it. 

– Greed makes us want more than we can handle. 

– Money will not make you happy, value makes you happy. 

– Godliness with contentment means having a deep gratitude and appreciation to God for what you currently have. 

The Rich vs The Poor: 

True millionaires shun get-rich-quick schemes!

– Rich people have an investment mindset while the poor have a consumer mindset. 

– The rich acquire more assets while the poor acquire more liabilities. 

– The rich are accountable for their money while the poor spend carelessly.

– Successful people love work, the poor only believe in luck.

– The rich do not really work for money, their money works for them. 

– The rich take note of opportunities but the poor overlook them.

– True millionaires live below their means. They would rather live without than buy things on credit.

– A true millionaire knows how to maximize time, talent and resources.

– While the poor are obsessed with having more money, the rich often trust in their own riches rather than God. 

The Christian and Money:

– God is not a philanthropist on a poverty eradication campaign, he is a businessman who entrusts wealth to his faithful stewards. 

– God wants to meet our needs, not satiate our greed. If we measure our lives only by our possessions, we have no more hope than an unbeliever. 

– Money will destroy us if that’s all we are seeking. Money is just a means, not an end.

– God’s kingdom principles apply to money as much as they apply to anything else. 

– God wants us to be rich so we can carry out his purposes, which includes reaching out to the unsaved.

– When God blesses us with money, let us remember it’s God’s.

– If we are not faithful with little, God cannot entrust us with much.

– We can’t blame God for being poor if we refuse to make use of the opportunities he brings our way.

– When you have money working for you, you have the time and opportunity to work for God. 

– A believer should be content living with little as well as with much. 


Personal Finance Rules:

– Do not take a loan if you don’t have a capital that exceeds the loan.

– Never spend on what you can do without.

– Save at least 10 times of whatever you spend on pleasure. 

– The quality of your life is the quality of your thinking, you cannot make a lot of money if you think you can’t.

On Financial Knowledge and Opportunities:

Prayer will not save you from financial ignorance, knowledge will.

– Financial knowledge is like a magnet that attracts more riches. 

– Never stop learning. Continuous Education is the minimum requirement for achieving success.

– Opportunity comes when it comes, and often unexpectedly. We cannot guarantee opportunities, but we can guarantee our preparedness.

– The amount of money people make is a direct result of the amount of knowledge they have.


On Hardwork, Vision and Fulfilling Your Calling:

Master your field. If you’re casual about life, you’ll remain a mediocre.

– Every time you meet a need, you fulfill your calling.

– You alone have the ability to share the knowledge you have gained, for no one else has lived your life.

– Each individual was uniquely designed to meet another individual’s need. No man was created an island.

– Hard work should be enjoyed not endured. Only after you’ve worked hard, should you make time to relax.

– Great people become great by discovering other people’s problems and providing solutions to them.

– What gives us ultimate joy is not the profit of our labor but our contribution to mankind.

– Vision leads to provision. Money flows in the direction of vision. 

– People who achieve success in life never postpone or procrastinate with their vision.

– Don’t compare yourself with others. Compare yourself with your calling and destiny.


On little beginnings and overcoming obstacles:

– Just like a ladder, the higher you go, the more effort it takes to acquire success.

– Those who can minimize the distance between decision and real action are those who become great. 

– The person who does the barest minimum while expecting to accomplish the maximum, is setting himself up for failure. 

– An excellent spirit causes you to go the extra mile. 

– The best way to attack fear is to go ahead and do what you’re afraid of doing.

– Problems can be powerful tools that push people into discovering new ideas and hidden potentials.

The Three Laws of Money:

The first law of money is multiplication.

The second law of money is retention.

The third law of money is investment.


||Conclusion

If you do not already know what you need money for, then you really do NOT need it.


||Challenges

This was a moderately voluminous read and I think in trying to emphasize some points, the writer was quite repetitive. 

While he made many great points, I do not agree with everything he wrote (maybe because I’m yet to get to that level of financial understanding). 

||Recommendations

A good roadmap for every young believer commencing the journey into personal finance.  
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I hope you enjoyed this review. 

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JUNE 2019|| Mid-Year Review, Reflections And Resolutions.


Hello Fam,

It’s the middle of the year already and God has been indeed faithful.

I’m not exactly where I’d hoped to be (in some aspects of my life) but I celebrate where I am at the moment because it can only get better. 

Amen and Hallelujah. 🙌

Here’s a recap of the post I wrote at the beginning of the year 5 things to do in 2019.

I still need to TRUST God more (not just in words, but through my actions), there are many unrealized goals I have to work towards, and I certainly have to do better with taking stock and giving thanks.   

||REVIEW

(Randomly picked and edited most of these questions from online articles)

1. How would you describe the year so far?

Emm…Interesting (for lack of a better word). 

It’s been that kind of unforgettable year, not in a “big-bang” way, but in a “what else now?” kind of way.

2. What accomplishment(s) are you most proud of?

– Producing, Marketing & Selling a number of the Requine’s Journals and the sincere feedbacks I got from some of my customers (on ways to make the product even better). 

– Finally taking vaginal deliveries and repairing minor lacerations (this time last year it was only a dream).  

3. What major lessons have you learnt in this half-year?

Several. 

i) My life is shaped by my thoughts. A negative mindset will trigger negative actions which will trigger negative outcomes. 

ii) God speaks and the devil speaks, my responsibility is to decide whose voice I listen to.

iii) Success is a spectrum; there’s no total failure – there are only strategies that don’t work at a particular time, in a particular place and with a particular set of people.

iv) I’ve been graced for this season of my life and God is equipping me for the next season already.

v) What I bring to the table determines how I’m valued. To increase my value, I must increase my contributions. 

vi) I have nothing to prove but everything to improve. 

vii) There are always helpers to my destiny, it is my responsibility to pray them in.

viii) Success is attractive and inspires others to succeed. No one argues with results, it is self-proven.

ix) Nothing beats the reassurance that God is for me and with me. He knows what I need even before I ask him.

x) Every blessing is a responsibility, ditto answered prayers.

4. How are you different now than you were 6 months ago?

Physically fatter (sadly😞), a couple of thousands richer (thankfully) and a whole lot wiser.

5. What new relationships have you fostered?

Quite a number, especially with some of my colleagues at work. 

6. In what areas do you feel stuck?

– My current job is pretty demanding (physically and mentally) and I’m really looking forward to a better job opportunity. I can’t continue like this tbh…

– I’m also not getting the most out of my 2019 goals which is really discouraging.


7. What are you most grateful for?

– The gift of Life.

– The gift of Health: Physical and Mental.

– The gift of Men (Friends, Family and Colleagues).

||REFLECTIONS

Looking back to the beginning of this year I was pretty excited even without knowing what the year had to offer. 

2019 has indeed been an interesting year because everything isn’t going exactly according to my plan, but God is reminding me that it’s not up to me to make things happen. 

“Commit your way unto the Lord, TRUST also in him, and HE WILL bring it to pass.” Ps 37:5


I’ve had some exciting moments like getting a job and moving to another town, rekindling some old relationships and fostering new ones, and finding a place of worship where I fit right in.

I’ve also had a couple of challenges like meeting up with the demands of my job, on and off health issues, and experiencing joy in the midst of pain and disappointment.

Then I’ve suffered a few bouts of depression as well…feelings of frustration about being left behind in life, but thankfully I’m back on my feet.  

Partaking of DDK’s Ignition Intensive Series (an online coaching program) was definitely a mind blowing and defining experience for me.

Also, I’ve spent more time, effort and money on self-care (hairdo, beauty products etc) than in previous years. 

Lastly, I’ve read over a dozen books this year including:

Model Marriage (Deg-Heward Mills)

Jumpstart Your Leadership (John C. Maxwell)

For Married Women Only (Tony Evans)

Exploring The Secrets Of Success (Bishop David Oyedepo)

WORDS (Kenneth Hagin)

The Smart Money Woman (Arese Ugwu) 
 
Secrets of An Irresistible Woman (Michelle Mckiney Hammond)


||RESOLUTIONS

Going forward, I have decided to make the most of the remaining months of this year by prioritizing where I currently am over where I think I should be because when all is said and done, 

The best time to live is NOW. 

Henceforth, I choose to:

1) Find joy in the simple things. 

2) Live in the moment everyday. 

3) Be a blessing wherever I find myself.

4) Not stress myself over the things I CANNOT control. 

5) Stop believing the lies of satan that “I’m not enough.” 

So help me God.

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Cheers to a Fantastic Month!!!

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